Now-a-days friendship has also started having categories..
U can be "just" friends, "good" friends, "best" friends"..
N the number of friends in each category may vary depending on your popularity, nature and personality !!!
But the ones really worth cherishing are the BFF's..
For the uninitiated.. this stands for Best Friends Forever.. :)
How to differentiate them from the rest u ask ???
well.. it really ain't that difficult really...
Here is a list of some of the traits that separates them from the rest of the population :
U can be "just" friends, "good" friends, "best" friends"..
N the number of friends in each category may vary depending on your popularity, nature and personality !!!
But the ones really worth cherishing are the BFF's..
For the uninitiated.. this stands for Best Friends Forever.. :)
How to differentiate them from the rest u ask ???
well.. it really ain't that difficult really...
Here is a list of some of the traits that separates them from the rest of the population :
- They know things about you that you may not have discovered yet.. ;)
- You feel like you know them since forever..
- Time literally "flies" when you are with them..
- You never have to think about what topic to talk on.. topics simply evolve by themselves.. ;)
- Destination doesn't matter.. You'll end up having a great time even if u're standing in the parking lot.. ;)
- Talking everyday isn't mandatory.. every time u talk.. you take off exactly where you had left off..
- They may not be around always.. but they'd inevitably be there d moment you need them around..
- New people may come n go in both your lives.. but your rapport with each other remains the same !!!
- Words aren't always necessary to have your message sent across..
- One look at your face and they're able to gauge that all may not be well...
- Mistakes are easily forgiven and no grudges are ever held.. :)
- Looking back.. You always have a trunkload of memories.. which never fail to bring a smile on ur face.. :)
- Fights with each other never last long..
- One day before d xams.. with almost zero preparation.. you'll be sure to get "psych talk" on how u already know everything n so need not worry.. ;)
- You can never get enough of each other's company.. when together the whole world gets blurred..
- When you go to a marriage.. there will be advice like "aankhein khuli rakhna" :P
- The moment something "happening" happens you have to fight the urge to call them n tell.. ;)
- Their stuff remains with you for so long that you think it belongs to you.. :D
- You never get bored.. cz if you have nothing to do you can always call them up.. (thank gawd for the bsnl to bsnl free..would have been thrown out of the house by now otherwise.. ) ;)
- You always have that "secret" smile for all the things others don't know.. ;)
Such friends are a treasure in life... Having them around makes life more worthwhile.. :)
I'm lucky to have some of the best !!! :)
p.s. - the above post is dedicated to my bff's.. can't express how lucky I am to have u in my life.. love.. :* :)
Lovely vini.. <3
ReplyDeleteSo oooo well said....
Not every 1 in ur life can be made BFF ....they truly r custom made ....4 ppl dear 2 d heavenly father... by him
M lucky I found my gift.....here in ur frnshp
m lucky to have u.. :))
Delete*hugs* <3 <3